Thursday, December 31, 2020

Sounds of Insouciance

How would you explain your last acquaintance with someone you know for years has turned into insouciance? A feeling so surreal. Would I have to spend incongruous association in juxtapositions? These are just collocations in contrasting colours.

You could call it abysmal misery or stupidity; you fathom your stance for good. Certain associations, be it friendship, relationship or association; has to pave way for a logical ending. It results in better days. A morbid growth is a slow decay.

Some associations fall astray, some goes naïve and nice. Friendship are hardly and nice to keep by. Perhaps, it takes slavish adherence to convictions and sometimes, it requires sheer understanding of one-another. Many such friendships have come and gone, but what remains are between the doors.

We are living in inextricable times when each one of us put forth our interests over the other. Relationship either falls into strength or follies. For instance, it is almost impossible to find a friendship or association starting from cradle to grave. Such a thing largely remains imaginary.

Throughout your life, you keep meeting people who either interest you, kill you with boredom or make an effort to stay in your life. Rest should be left unsaid. Either you get crazy over one-another or just wonder around from dusk to dawn. Perhaps, there is no such thing called ideal friendship.

Be it a big thing or million things, you do it because you need to do it. Not because you want to do it. Some friendships are hard to come by.
Life has not been fair thus far. I had tumultuous times and also good times on the other hand. 

It does not necessarily call for sounds of insouciance.

Friendships are hard to come by, but when then actually arrive, it is crash landing. When literature becomes the symbol of expression, friendship or its relative association ought to become illusion or dream. 

There is no single definition for friendship. As I have had some good and some sour ones, I can needlessly conclude it as a boomerang effect. I cherish the good ones and repent the wrong ones. It does teach a lesson but you ought to repeat the loop at times. Sun shines and it is bright, moon blossoms and it shines. It cannot be seen any other way. Friendship of all sorts have one thing in common. They are motivated to a personalised opinion. Rest can rest.

How would you define a friendship that lasts forever with uneven odds? I may not be able to explain that in one-go. The ones I cherish are the ones that never taught me a lesson. Similarly, the ones I repent has given me some sort of direction to priorities.  Age blends the whiskey, so as wine. Some older friendships get better by age, but by no means a sure confirmation. Just how you cannot reproduce an effect of an old occurrence, you cannot reproduce an old friendship and a deed.

Life at large is an experiment. All the permutations, combinations and perplexes we have had will still juxtapose into one single frame. Morality by no means is a regret or conclusion. We reason our failures but credit our victory. The examination of facts will not reveal the realm of senses. Prudence and modesty are a discreet silence.

Friendship or its relative association in some way has circumspective actions. It is unobtrusive and baits you. I have had instances that goes back 20 odd years but effects remain totally current. Otherwise, how would you define karma? Actions, reactions and over-reactions has its desired destination and fate. But fallacy has its share of misconception and incorrect reasoning.

With each new day that comes to pass, will the great spirit free us all at last?

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